A lot of girls know what kind of wedding ring they want and insist on going to pick it out with you. Do you consider this tacky or helpful? Would you rather surprise her yourself?
I would like for the initial ring to be a surprise with the condition that she can pick out the ring she wants in the same realm of the original ring. i.e. – If I spend $20K on an engagement ring, I’m not going to let her pick one out that is $40K…